BE all that you ASPIRE to BE

Today I like to talk about people who sit in our heart and leave an amazing foot print by just who they are.

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Have you ever experienced meeting someone in your life, whether you worked with them, or were a member of your family, or met through your friends,  and you know instantly that they are special and hold a special place in your heart?Have you ever thought what is it about them that makes them not only special but also passed really quickly and at times bypassed your assessment criteria and landed inside your heart?  And thought this is what humanity is all about.

There are some people that have had such an effect in my life. I have found myself wishing to be in their presence, to learn from them, and aspire to be them.  I wondered what it is about them that holds this type of connective energy.  I noticed they hold an essence of love, a love that is not attached to one person, but is connected to people.  A type of love that holds moral values, betterment of humanity at large, with a commitment to take a stance for what they believe in, and a humility of being service to all who are present.  

So as I strive to be and feel the connective energy, I also witness what holds me back.  Have you noticed what holds you back from all that you want to be and express?

I noticed with many people that I come into contact with, what holds them back is fear, fear of playing big, fear of failure, fear of actually being seen and not liked, fear of not coming through, and fear of being betrayed by others.  Many irrational beliefs has held them back.  Lack of self worth or questioning whether they have anything to offer holds them from expressing who they are and what they believe. 

So, what is different for the people who become special?  They don’t think that they are special, but know what they offer is special and matters.  They know how much their love, moral values and attention is worth and they offer it free to all, even  to the one’s that don’t want it.  

Most of all, they know their vision and goal which is way beyond their personal needs, are committed to pursue their vision, and don’t get distracted by other people’s games, manipulations, diversions or distractions.

Let’s observe,

What is it that you strive for? 

Is it bigger than you?

Does it include the values for humanity?

What are all the ways that you are living your vision?

What stops you from fully living your vision?

Who would you be without those obstacles? or fears?

What do you need to go beyond your fears or obstacles?

What is stopping you from gaining the skills to go beyond those obstacles?

When is the time to take stand for you?

Wishing you to be all that you aspire to be.

The only way to be in every one’s heart  – Is to start from your own heart



About Dr.FoojanZeine

Dr. Foojan Zeine is an International Speaker, Psychotherapist, Life Coach, and the Author of Life Reset – The Awareness Path to Create the Life You Want. She has a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology and is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. She practices in Beverly Hills & San Clemente, California offices, and online. Her expertise is in Intimate Relations and Addictive Behaviors. She has extensive experience treating Depression, Anxiety, Traumas, and Domestic Violence. Foojan is the originator and the author for “Awareness Integration” psychotherapeutic model, which is a multi-modality approach and intervention toward minimizing Depression, Anxiety while improving Self Esteem and Self Confidence. This Method has been published with multiple research. Foojan hosts the “Inner Voice” show in the KMET1490AM/ ABC Radio. She is a guest speaker in many universities including Harvard, MIT, UCLA, USC. She has been a guest in the Dr. Phil show in CBS, Fox, Voice of America Television Programs; KPFK 90.7, KIRN 670AM.
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